i hate it when people use term “asexual” (it happens in polish too) when they mean “lacking sex appeal” or “lacking characteristics attributed to gender”. basically they use the name of one of the sexual orientations to describe how they perceive someone’s looks wrt how that person in their eyes fails to fit standards… which also shows they ignorance on asexuality.
“In the 1890s, when Freud was in the dawn of his career, he was struck by how many of his female patients were revealing childhood [sexual] victimization to him. Freud concluded that child sexual abuse was one of the major causes of emotional disturbances in adult women and wrote a brilliant and humane paper called “The Aetiology of Hysteria.” However, rather than receiving acclaim from his colleagues for his ground-breaking insights, Freud met with scorn. He was ridiculed for believing that men of excellent reputation (most of his patients came from upstanding homes) could be perpetrators of incest.
Within a few years, Freud buckled under this heavy pressure and recanted his conclusions. In their place he proposed the “Oedipus complex,” which became the foundation of modern psychology… Freud used this construct to conclude that the episodes of abuse his clients had revealed to him had never taken place; they were simply fantasies of events the women had wished for… This construct started a hundred-year history in the mental health field of blaming victims for the abuse perpetrated on them and outright discrediting of women’s and children’s reports of mistreatment by men.”
― Lundy Bancroft
read this carve it into your brains permanently etch it into your skulls r e a d t h i s
i don’t know how to deal with this
So we can now say, the mental health infrastructure’s blaming of women for sexual violation is; ‘as old as Freud.’. Or y’know more honestly. ‘as old as punk ass, throw women under a bus for his own peer validation Freud’.
wait… a simmer I’ve been a fan of since I was a tiny baby lurking in the sim fandom has started following my simblr?
Ola, 22, wordplay with 'Iron Maiden' and one of structures appearing in steel, literature&science, came for eerie aesthetics stayed for the blog development, interesting commentary, and sharing fandoms (also: aesthetics), on average I drink 1 liter of orange juice daily, what did brought you to make a tumblr account? I have to admit your blog was a fascinating mystery for me before we started talking to each other
oh my gosh this was really nice!!!
(i also drink lots of orange juice whenever we buy it)
before I made a tumblr account I used to visit some blogs for a few months. I initially came here via sim fandom. After lurking for so long I wanted to have my own blog, but made the decision after being encouraged by nyananas. I wanted it to be “eerie and kinda sad images reblogged without context”.
I wanna meet my followers
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